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Silly question, I know.....discussion between hubby & me!
Published on March 14, 2008 By foreverserenity In Personal Relationships

I got home a bit late last night.  I took the afternoon off to do some errands, namely get the registrations to our cars renewed since it's hubby's birthday, that time is back!  There I was sitting in the DMV chatting with some guy when my hubby walked in!  Nothing of it, but I was surprised to see him, he came to keep me company after he left work. 

He's turning 51 this weekend, and I must say he is looking pretty darn good for his age! Anyway, he left to go home for the kids and I stayed on then went on some more errands.

 

I finally got home, all tired out but glad to be home!  I helped myself to a little dinner, thank heavens he likes to cook and sat in front of the television. 

He yells from the bedroom, "...turn to channel 56, you're missing something good!"   I switch channels, people on the beach, South Beach in fact, hot bods, some not so hot, then topless women and men lying on the beach.....I told him that it was interesting but I really wanted to watch my program. 

After a few minutes he came and sat beside me on the coach, I was still pecking at my food.  My program went to commercial so I switched channels to the Travel channel he was watching!  He goes, "you know, I would go to a nudist beach...." I looked at him and grinned, "really" I said....he goes, "oh yes, I've done that before many years ago, back home, I would end up there with my friends..." Me..."really, you never told me that".....him..."sure I did, what, you wouldn't do it?"  Me looking at him with mouth full..."nope...no way..." Him..."really, why not?.....Me..."well, not with my body....are you kidding me...everybody would be looking at me, I would have to have plastic surgery first or probably lose 20 pounds first"....Him..."you kidding right, what's wrong with your body?....you're not serious!"  Me...."I haven't exactly stayed lean as you know....not like you who still look good..."  Him..."you can't be serious....plus who would care anyway, you're on a nudist beach.....it wouldn't matter...." Me.."of course they would, people would be checking each other out, for sure, I know I would!".....We laughed at that!  Then he goes " seriously, you wouldn't do it?  I would!  Me..." seriously....Ok, then I would as long as you're there but I would be lying down the whole time!"  LOL!

 

Now let me tell you, I've never realised that he was so....uninhibited, well I know he is, but nakkid in front of other people?!  My hubby is a fun person, he's no prude and we can have the raunchiest of conversation sometimes, all in good fun!  But I was surprised to hear him say that, and I was even more surprised he was so unflappable about it!

Even more, I realise how lucky I am, he loves my body, warts and all, even after all these years of being together!  That gave me an especially warm glow!

 

Have any of you ever been to a nudist beach and if so, did you take your clothes off, all of it?  And would you go to a nudist beach? 

 

I told him we could arrange that, going to a nude beach, but the kids would have to have a sitter, that would be a weekend plan and I might have to wear dental floss so that I don't feel so self conscious! LOL!

Me on a nude beach....he's more confident than I am,,,,,Yeah....I don't think it's gonna happen anytime soon!


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on Mar 14, 2008
Most "regular" beaches are topless for both sexes.


I knew there was something I forgot when I "Godzilla"ed out of the ocean the other day . . .

TAKE OFF YOUR TOP.

File under "H" (for hott) for future reference.
on Mar 14, 2008

trying to look like they're not gawkin

 

I resemble that remark!

 

 

When in Rome..

 

Exactly what he's telling me!lol

 

 

 

on Mar 14, 2008

I think I would be too self-conscious.  We actually have a nudist colony in my county and they have a 5k - the bare buns run, clothing optional.  I always tease that I'm going to enter some year.  I guess we all have the same bits and pieces when it comes down to it though. 

on Mar 14, 2008
I think I would be too self-conscious


Me too. And I'm scared it might ~ahem~ show too. But...at least I'd have a place to hang my towel.   
on Mar 14, 2008

Sure!!  that way I'd have the beach all to myself!  LOL

on Mar 15, 2008

When questions like this come up, it always takes me back to the time I streaked.  Yes... ParaTed2k, Mormon Elder and opinionated blogger has run, buck nekkid through one of the hollows not far from where I grew up.

The thing is, I doubt I would have gone to a nude beach even back then.  Not because of any moral or religious reasons (sadly, back then morality and my religion didn't seem to get in the way of many of my decisions).  The biggest reason I wouldn't have done it is nature.  I would be deathly afraid that, being a teenage boy, nature would take over at the beauties I saw around me... arousing sure embarrasment and self consciousness from which I may never have recovered.  ;~D

on Mar 15, 2008

 

TAKE OFF YOUR TOP. File under "H" (for hott) for future reference

SIZZZILING~!  LOL!  Hey Braeden, you're probably in the right place to do some of that nekkid beach stuff, the Europeans like to do it don't they?!

 

But...at least I'd have a place to hang my towel

Oh boy Roy, you would be on the front page!LOL!

 

I think I would be too self-conscious

That's what I'm feeling too.  It's not that I don't like my body, (even though I'm trying to get fit and leaner) I do like my body.  But I just would be too self concious!

 

Sure!! that way I'd have the beach all to myself!

LOL! Trudy, we would both scare them all away!

 

Not because of any moral or religious reasons (sadly, back then morality and my religion didn't seem to get in the way of many of my decisions). The biggest reason I wouldn't have done it is nature.

I agree Ted, not because of moral or religious reasons for me either.   But yes, I agree with you about that nature part, it's only natural isn't it!

 

When questions like this come up, it always takes me back to the time I streaked. Yes... ParaTed2k, Mormon Elder and opinionated blogger has run, buck nekkid through one of the hollows not far from where I grew up.

Oh boy Ted!  

on Mar 17, 2008
I think I would be too self-conscious


Me too. And I'm scared it might ~ahem~ show too. But...at least I'd have a place to hang my towel.

I'm kinda like Roy I think I might be scared stiff.   
on Mar 17, 2008

I'm kinda like Roy I think I might be scared stiff.

You're a nut!

on Mar 17, 2008

If everyone else did then I probably would too. 

My wife regularly sun bathes topless.  In Australia, it is fairly common so nobody gives the girls a second glance (except for teenage boys or perverts).

on Mar 17, 2008

Nah, my hubby would never go for it. 

on Mar 18, 2008

Nah, my hubby would never go for it.

LOL!  It wouldn't be what most men want to do! Not like mine who seemingly has no fear of over exposure!LOL!

 

My wife regularly sun bathes topless. In Australia, it is fairly common so nobody gives the girls a second glance (except for teenage boys or perverts).

 

Wow!  Brave woman!  If no one makes a big deal of it, it's good and it's the norm, even better!

 

 

on Mar 18, 2008
(except for teenage boys or perverts).


...or visiting horny tourist from hung-up backwards places like Bible-belt Texas.

Oooh, did I say that out loud?    
on Mar 18, 2008
on Mar 18, 2008

or visiting horny tourist from hung-up backwards places like Bible-belt Texas. Oooh, did I say that out loud?

  Great song too...

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