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I'm done tryng to understand
Published on October 18, 2006 By foreverserenity In Blogging
I like to think I know people, I have a good sense of who someone is almost all of the time; that's my 'thing'.

Of course I've been wrong before and it's always enlightening and a little disappointing when I am. I usually chalk it down to a lesson learn and move on.

I'm done trying to figure some people out. This trying to figure some people out isn't just about one, there are a few that I don't even want to bother to try figure out, not anymore.

I am an honest person, what I write and how I write and what I discuss, that's me. Not a fake, not a persona, just me.


If I like someone, I hang around them, but I don't expect to be everyone's friend or vice versa.

I'm up to my neck in disgust. I'm done trying t figure some people out, one minute they run hot, then they run cold, the topsy turvy of human emotions is over the top and I refuse to be pulled in anymore by people who don't have enough of a life to be online and wreaking havoc where they thread, even when they stick to themselves.


I'm not going to let people like these spoil my fun. But I'll definately distance myself because I'm not good at pretending in circumstances like this. LIfe's too short to have a chip on my shoulder and I'm too old for bs.


I'm not a drama queen but I think it's time I take a little break so I can calm down.

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on Oct 20, 2006
Jennifer, I'm honestly not in a 'war of words' with you. I also dont' have the inclination, still don't to go at it with you. The article I wrote wasn't all about you, some of it was about you, but not all of it. I wasn't inviting a flame, otherwise I would have done it openly. And if you must know, there has been some personal stuff about someone else in my daily life, who I cared about a lot. I'll share that another time.

You are entitled to your opinion and as it is in our good country, I appreciate everyone's right to free speech, opinion and whatever the heck they want to do. I would never get in the way of someone expressing their thoughts are opinions. The thing is how you do say, what you do imply and the reaction you expect the other person to have.

It's almost like sensationalising. We all do it sometimes, hey, why not eh, if it gets the reader to look their way. However, when that's all the person does it becomes apparent quite quickly what they're all about.

I have no problems with people who disagree with me, none whatsover, in fact I enjoy a good debate. I like learning something I had no idea about and if it leaves both parties enlighten, even better.

What I don't go in for is what's happening in this case. So, respectfully, I'll agree to stay away from you and you from me. The line is drawn in the sand. Let's do that shall we. Oh, and I'm not going to blacklist you. I've been through worse 'war' than this.



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Guys thank you from the bottom of my heart for being so gracious and for the nice things you said. I appreciate it very much and it really warms my heart, more than you know. It's been a harrowing day and I'm still a bit stressed.

Because of you, each of you, that's why I'm here and I'm grateful for it.
on Oct 20, 2006
Oh M, I'm loving the picture! I can't believe you come up with these stuff!!
on Oct 20, 2006
Maso wrote:
I think your tone, both in this article and Serenity's 'Open Letter...' to be, at best, argumentative and at worst, it looked to me like you were spoiling for a fight.


Jennifer1 wrote:
I disagree, I was stating my opinion honestlyon the original thread


Okay, I went back to your original response and I just don't see it. You said

My my you do sound like a square school ma'am FS


and

Stop being such spoilsports, they have their youth, the looks and the bodies, but mostly their youth


and

Just because your youth is long gone do not try to spoil theirs with your petty narrow outlooks.


You said all this in your first response to Serenity. I think you will find there is a big difference between expressing and opinion and being hostile.

I am not allowed to express myself openly and honestly and be myself, she always crits me for being myself.


Wow, Serenity must have some incredible power if she is preventing you from expressing yourself online. Just in case you don't know, I am being sarcastic.

Serenity is a warm, giving, wonderful person who has never, in the entire time I've been with JU, done anything to warrant your sort of response Jennifer. I think you need to sit back and take a good hard look at what you're doing because at the moment all you're doing is making yourself more and more unpopular.
on Oct 20, 2006
FS: You know we love ya!
on Oct 20, 2006
I'm having Deja Vu.
on Oct 21, 2006
I'm having Vuja De.


Is that like Zima?

on Oct 22, 2006
Reply By: little-whipPosted: Friday, October 20, 2006((((donna)))


Thx Whip, likewise!


You said all this in your first response to Serenity. I think you will find there is a big difference between expressing and opinion and being hostile.


Exactly Maso! From the get go, it was weird too since I didn't say one insulting thing in the article.



Wow, Serenity must have some incredible power if she is preventing you from expressing yourself online


Didn't you hear, I have super powers of precognition! I can see through walls and the computer screen, I know exactly what you're doing right now so go put some clothes on, no typing in the buff!!


Serenity is a warm, giving, wonderful person who has never, in the entire time I've been with JU, done anything to warrant your sort of response Jennifer.


Thanks Mark! I've said it before, I'm a lover not a fighter, unless I have to sock it to someone who deserves it!


Reply By: BlueDevPosted: Friday, October 20, 2006FS: You know we love ya!


Thanks Peter!


Reply By: IƧonoƧlastPosted: Friday, October 20, 2006I'm having Deja Vu.


Reply By: little-whipPosted: Saturday, October 21, 2006I'm having Vuja De.


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Reply By: Gene NashPosted: Saturday, October 21, 2006I'm having Vuja De.Is that like Zima?


Zima the drink? You know I've never tried it, I've been meaning to!
on Oct 24, 2006
According to the psycho-biatch-from-hell, you were inviting a flame war, saying all sorts of nasty things and hosting a bully-fest.


There's got to be some type of deficiency there somehow. There has to be. That, are just plain hate, why, I don't know? It's hard to fathom how I could stir up such a strong feeling of dislike in her? I haven't done anything to warrant this at all. I will have to address this later because it bothers me.


Weird, how so many people can see the exact same thing, yet one individual refuses to.


I know.
on Oct 24, 2006

I'm late to this thread, but I wanted you to know that I'm sorry this happened.  You're so sweet, and you didn't deserve the treatment you got.

 

on Oct 24, 2006
I'm late to this thread, but I wanted you to know that I'm sorry this happened. You're so sweet, and you didn't deserve the treatment you got.


Thanks Karen!
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