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Published on October 27, 2007 By foreverserenity In Blogging
I was responding to Terpfan's article, Link, regarding his blogging style. The tail-end of my response was "many people wants to be read but they don't read anyone else", not with reference to him or anyone else directly for that matter, just an observation being a blogger for as long as I've been. While this wasn't what was being discussed on terp's blog, it's something I thought about while reading and responding to his.


Although I don't visit other blog sites, as often as I do JU, I do browse online magazines on a regular basis and one of the lament I often read when the article has is about blogging is that some people don't get read as often as they like or think they should. And if their blog is read often, as their numbers would indicate, the comments are scarce!


The thing is blogging is a two-way street regardless of what some people do think. There are some bloggers who refuse to comment on anyone who don't visit their blog site, and some who refuse to comment at all because they are just readers. Not discounting the ones who refuse to comment on some blogs because of dislike, etc.


If you're a part of a community, it is always good to participate and be an active member or else no one will know who you are and no one will care. While some folks are just too busy to find the time to read and comment on every article, there are those who make it their business to do just that and more power to them!


People blog for the enjoyment of it, as well as for the notoriety, even if they don't become famous, the pleasure one gets from work they produce and have someone else take an interest in is highly addictive!


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on Oct 27, 2007

Interesting points.

Funny thing is that over the last few years a few Blog traffic exchange sites have come and gone, and that would seem to imply that such sites just don't work, which, uh, further implies to some extent that a person we might call Blogger A posts articles hoping that some other persons we might call Blogger B and Reader C will actually come along and read their articles and perhaps comment on same.

What winds up happening in many cases is that Reader C may actually do as hoped for, but Blogger B may simply wind up visiting and never adding a comment at all, or worse, Blogger B may never visit at all.

What I'm trying to acknowledge, in a roundabout way, is that yeah, many times it seems that the fellow bloggers are among the worst at visiting other sites and adding to the discussions there.  It may be because they don't want to support a competing site, it may be because they don't like the other person's political preferences, or it could be that they are carrying a grudge over some past discussion.  It might even be that the other blogger is just too busy and doesn't have time to spend doing much reading of other blogs.

What's it all mean?  Heck, I don't know.  It could be that blogging is doing as some have hoped and is slowing down.  It could mean nothing at all.

I'll leave that stuff for others to figure out.

on Oct 27, 2007
What's it all mean? Heck, I don't know. It could be that blogging is doing as some have hoped and is slowing down. It could mean nothing at all.


I hear ya! There are times when I can read and respond to a lot. Then there are times when I can barely read and scarcely respond! Life happens, as it does for everyone!

But yes, Blogging might just be going out of style, although I really think it won't. It just will be the ones who were doing it for the wrong reasons will lose interest, IMO, and perhaps even just a matter of it not being the number one thing to do anymore, who knows! as you say, maybe someone else can figure it out!
on Oct 27, 2007
I read waaaay more than I comment for various reasons, but I think the "rule of 69" applies...if I comment on you, you comment on me, and vice versa!
on Oct 27, 2007
I also read more than I comment on. FS, I read your blog quite a bit but don't comment often.

Most times I like to digest what I read before making an off the cuff comment that I haven't thought out well. The problem is then that I often don't feel like posting after some time has past.

A couple of times I spent a long time writing stuff out only to have it disappear with a bizarre key stroke or browswer glitch and that has really decreased my fervor for longer posts.

Some people with whom I really disagree, I won't post on their blogs (if I even read them but sometimes I get sucked in by a title) because I think they won't be able to deal with what I have to say or say, "show me the proof" and I honestly have better things to do with my time then trying doing research to prove my opinion is valid. I'm sure it's a worthwhile endeavor, but I just have other things I prefer to do with my time. It's not that important to me to be right. Usually, those kind of articles are more emotionally based anyway, so what's the point.

Okay, now my big question, "who is DoN?" I feel like I should know considering how long I've been around JU but I can't think of who.

Anyway, FS, if you'd like, I can put a dot or something on a post to show I was there if I don't have much to say.
on Oct 27, 2007
When I first came to JU, I make no apologies for it, I wanted to be in the top ten users and blog sites. So I looked at the profiles of everyone in the top ten.

What I found is that EVERY member of the top ten had substantially more comments than articles. And I worked to maintain a five to one or better ratio. Somewhere along the line I think it slipped to four to one, but I still try to keep it up there. And, of course, my "blogger you should know" series on new bloggers helped a LOT (that's how I met TW, among many, many other bloggers).

The point is, JU is a community. And like other communities, you can't just be a "taker. You have to be a "giver" as well.
on Oct 27, 2007
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I was here Donna!   
on Oct 27, 2007
I comment a hell of a lot more than I write articles!
on Oct 27, 2007
Holy crap, I just did some quick math, and for every article I write, I've left 16 comments.

Obviously I'm not the problem.
on Oct 27, 2007
I think I'm like a lot of people. I read more than comment. I am really bad at commenting though. I want to let the author know I read them, but my comments are so silly, but sincere. I need to work on that.
on Oct 27, 2007
read waaaay more than I comment for various reasons, but I think the "rule of 69" applies...if I comment on you, you comment on me, and vice versa!


Yeah, it's good when it works both ways. I am aware though that there are many who prefer to read and hold off on commenting which is fine, it's a free world!


I suppose I could be like the DoN, who (judging by his often nonsensical comments) quickly skims every article and leaves a one-liner


! That does happen uh?! I skim when I'm in a hurry but I come back when I can give an article my full attention. That's the only time I don't respond. I especially like to wait and think about an article before I respond. It's not that I haven't read it, it's that I don't know how to say what I want to say so I say nothing!


Most times I like to digest what I read before making an off the cuff comment that I haven't thought out well. The problem is then that I often don't feel like posting after some time has past.


I hear ya! I see you lurking, miss reading you and sometimes I can't remember my blogspot password!!





Anyway, FS, if you'd like, I can put a dot or something on a post to show I was there if I don't have much to say.


I am really bad at commenting though. I want to let the author know I read them


Maybe we can develop some kind of code!! Now that would be too cute!lol!


When I first came to JU, I make no apologies for it, I wanted to be in the top ten users and blog sites. So I looked at the profiles of everyone in the top ten.


Wow! Gid, talk about stalking!! So you go on the offense (that's football talk in learning the game and about the enemy right?)


commentcommentcommentI was here Donna


Love you too Roy!lol!


I just did some quick math, and for every article I write, I've left 16 comments.Obviously I'm not the problem


Holy crap Robin...no you're not! I see you all over and you get a prize!!


Seriously though, I'm going back to my links on my sidebar. I have a hard time finding some of you sometimes and it's getting to be a pain!!
on Oct 27, 2007

It's a COLD day in MN.  when I  don't take the time to comment on another's blog,  after reading their stuff! ( p.s.  that was said "tongue in cheek )

There are some here at JU that,  as near as I can tell,  never frequent my blog cause I ain't NEVER gotten comments from them,  yet I"ve visited their blog and commented.

After a while,  ya know,  it gets OLD.....

We do have a lot of new bloggers here and quite a few of the regulars have dissapeared....I have my own MIA list that I miss!  Perhaps the new bloggers didn't/don't know how it works,  the regulars do.....nuf said.

 

on Oct 27, 2007
Holy crap, I just did some quick math, and for every article I write, I've left 16 comments.


Roughly 1 article per 18 comments for me. Though I have been here longer.


I comment around a good bit...and when my muses dance for me I write articles. Though sometimes I just can't think of a good comment...

~Zoo
on Oct 28, 2007

I can't remember my blogspot password

Want something really sad?  Just for my work and my accounts (not the admin accounts I use), I have 10 different user names and passwords!  it is insane, and stupid!

But to the subject, you read, and others will read you.  It is that simple.

on Oct 28, 2007
Want something really sad? Just for my work and my accounts (not the admin accounts I use), I have 10 different user names and passwords! it is insane, and stupid!


! I hear ya! I try to keep them the same for some things I have to do because my brain gets foggy!!


But to the subject, you read, and others will read you. It is that simple.


Yeah, share the spoils!


After a while, ya know, it gets OLD.....


That it does!


I comment around a good bit...and when my muse dances for me I write articles.


Likewise! My muses dances for me and out pops four or five new articles!!
on Oct 28, 2007
For me it has more to do with time constraints than anything. When on the road I try to take a quick peek to see who may have left a comment on something of mine, but sometimes I don't even have the time to respond to those let alone comment on everyone else's articles.

I try to catch up a bit when I have a little free time, like now, but it takes time to go through a lot of them. Sometimes I'll comment sometimes I won't. Like many others I read far more than I comment.

But I do agree that if one expects comments one should make an effort to comment on other's articles as well.
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