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Published on January 25, 2009 By foreverserenity In Blogging

Which word do you prefer to use?  No, I didn't ask you whether you like people of that persuasion or not, or what your religion feels, which word do you prefer to use when you talk about homosexuals?

I'm watching a movie "Doing time on Maple Drive" the dad told his son who he recently found out is a homosexual that he prefers the word "homosexual", instead of "gay" because "gay is a perfectly good word that has been destroyed"!

Interesting way of putting it!  I remember when I first came to the US when a discussion started about 'gay' and I happily said, "I'm gay"...in my naivety at the time because I wasn't familiar with that terminology being used in reference to people who were homosexual here.  In Jamaica when I was growing up, 'gay' was a term for someone who was happy and giddy and dare I say bright....?!lol!

I laughed when I was told this!  Boy being ignorant can lead to some interesting revelations! 


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on Jan 29, 2009

that's a gladiator name you know!

Didn't know that....American or ancient Roman?

Congrats on becoming a granny, I hope everything is going smoothly. Your grandchild and I share the same place on the Chinese zodiac year of the Ox

on Jan 29, 2009

Congrats on becoming a granny, I hope everything is going smoothly. Your grandchild and I share the same place on the Chinese zodiac year of the Ox

Thx! My some of the people in other depts in our bldg are amazed that I even have a child old enough to have children!lol!  I'm about to brag about him on my next blog!

Didn't know that....American or ancient Roman?

American!lol!

 

on Jan 30, 2009

 

I prefer 'camper than a row of tents' myself.

Interesting terminology!lol

The word 'gay' is just a euphenism that people liked, presumably because it's non-perjorative and fairly apt in describing a stereotypical gay man and doesn't require any mention of sex, both essential requirements for new garden party words.

Quite stereotypical too!  I like that..."garden party words"!

on Jan 30, 2009

Again...I'm not criticising, just asking.

Asking questions for clarity is always a good thing!

 

I was told once by a journalist years ago that he always uses the term homosexual for his editorials because gay was never meant to be used for homosexuals. They basically took this perfectly good word to describe themselves and I don't usually think of homosexuals as "gay."

I also think most people think only of men when they hear the word "Homosexual" and of both genders when they hear 'Gays"...to me at least!

 

I don't think you can destroy a word. Language is always changing, you just have to go along for the ride. Words come and go and change meaning over time as people and society changes.

Only when it is not pronounced properly or used in its correct format...at least IMO!  great point though!

But he wasn't Russian-born, he was Jewish-born. He was born IN the Soviet Union (Ukraine), but he wasn't born Russian or Ukrainian

I used to find him very funny when he was popular some years ago!

 

Wow...there are a lot of gay ads floating around in this page now

I saw that!

 

Oops! Sorry! I didn't mean to thread hijack there,  Donna! Here. I'll post something relevant to the subject matter:

You let that be a lesson to you mister!   Hijack away my friend, those hijacks can lead to some interesting roads sometimes!

I'll try and frequent JU a bit more...think I got this semester all figured out.

Nice to see ya Shaun!

Usually I use the word, gay. It's faster to say then homosexual.
Yea, I am lazy too.

I go both ways....I mean I use either depending on what I'm talking about!

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