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Why shouldn't I know what's happening with my child?
Published on April 19, 2007 By foreverserenity In Blogging
Did you know that when your child goes off to college, your right to know about what is going on with him, mentally and healthwise, ends? If he gets sick, you won't know about it, until it's too late or he or she is dead. If he has mental health issues, issues he or she has never had before, you won't be told about it?


That's right, you won't know about it unless your child decides or chooses to tell you. Do you want to know why? Because of the 'Privacy Policies" in place at all Universities and Colleges!


This is not right! How can this be allowed to happened?! While I appreciate that my child is now a young adult, is growing up, being independent and has rights of his/her own (not that they never did in my book anyway, and I'm sure it's the same for all parents too) why should I not be interested in knowing that something is wrong with him/her?!


This is wrong, wrong, wrong! These policies need to be revamped and I certainly hope that in light of what has happened recently that the powers that be at all these Universities and Colleges will make the changes necessary to end this madness!

Why do they think that parents wouldn't want to know, or shouldn't know about what is happening with their child? The very fact that the parents is informed, they might just be able to help! They might be able to do even more, much more than the colleges or universities can do! So these policies need to be changed now and fast!"

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on Apr 23, 2007
Also, let me add that I do have a good relationship with my own children and so I'm sure that I will know if they are seriously ill or not. I do have a 17 year old who is coming into her own and who we as parents are trying to guide in the right direction witout interfaring with her right to be independent of us.

I'm all too aware of parents who are toxic for their children, who disown their children because of trivialities or who are abusive and the child runs away from home or can't wait to get away because of that. I know this from what have happened to some of my daughter's friends. I'm not asking anyone to infringe on anyone's rights. My opinion as in the case of the killer who did what he did, and upon interviews with the parents who had no clue as to what went wrong and weren't aware of his mental issues or anything else for that matter. That probably was because they had no relationship with him.

I guess I'm not making myself understood in that as a parent if something is wrong with my child I want to know it before it's too late. Perhaps I'm too overprotective but I do know boundaries.
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