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Published on October 11, 2007 By foreverserenity In Blogging
It really does when you think you're about to die. I thank God for that guardian angel who was with me this morning! I'm still trembling although it was hours ago. Those crazy fucking drivers out there on our roads who care nothing about human life! I called the police on his ass and I'll be looking out for him too!


I'm calm, sorta, at least calmer than I was earlier, and I'm trying to get over the anger, I wanted to get out and bitch slap that person, but my daughter was with me and I had to be calm for her sake. My daughter was with me and I felt so helpless and all I could do was just to stay calm, take control of our situation and get out of it alive! God!


My car is out of commission and I've been dropping my husband at work in the mornings. At 6:30am, and it's very dark out then now, I dropped him off and I get back home to get my six and thirteen year old ready for the day. My thirteen year old gets himself together, with little reminders of what he should do and I get my six year old awake and ready for the day.

This morning however, she was awake and she wanted to come for the drive, which she has done before.

I drop my hubby off and was on the way back home. I'm coming along the road, and there is construction, a retaining wall because they are laying pipes around the area that I'm driving, this has been going on for weeks now. It reduced a three lane road, to one lane.

I'm coming along the road, there are two cars, who are on the side road, waiting to get onto the road I'm on, I saw them, one jumped ahead of me and since I wasn't speeding, I was OK, and maintain my current speed of 30 miles per hour, the jerk-face who was in a black tinted car, rushed out just as just as I pass by him, came right at me at such a speed that all I saw happening was a head on for me, my daughter who was in the back of the car, to my right, half asleep, would have gotten most of the impact of that because he would have swiped the side of me as well given the position he ended up in and because of the retaining wall!

I swerved to the left really quickly to avoid him, he kept going, we're side by side because I'm trying to slow down, and get my car out of his way, he's almost on top of me from my right side, even though I had to swerve left, into the oncoming traffic lane from the other side! That jerk kept driving and the retaining wall is on his side, right side, so he had no choice but to be up against me and should have stopped, but he didn't! That's when I stopped my car, because I had to make sure that I wasn't going to be in a double whammy situation with any vehicles coming at me from the left side from the other direction, and thank God there wasn't. By stopping my car, he had no choice but to stop because he could not go because of the retaining wall. All I could think about was oh my god, my daughter is safe, I'm safe, make sure no car is coming at you and that fucking idiot is half behind me, honking his horn!

Then you know what he did? He got around me from the left side, mind you this is a one lane road because of the construction and the retaining wall! I'm crossed ways on it, and half in the lane of the left turning lane for cars coming from the other direction! He got around me, and got in front of me and sped off. My reaction was to follow him! I wanted that bastard's license number and I prayed to God to let the traffic light up ahead stop that car. It did, and I got up behind him and I memorize his license number!

I repeated it over and over in my head and grabbed my cell phone and dialed 911. The light changed and he sped off. I was going in the other direction, to the right, while he headed left to the highway. In the haste I mistakenly dialed 611 so I redialed 911 and when the 911 operator came on, I started telling what happened, then I got the shakes and I started choking up, my voice trembling, then I couldn't think clearly, I couldn't stop shaking. I repeated the license number but then I got confused because I was trembling so much, thank heavens I was at the next traffic light and was not driving, I described the car and I was very sure about the last three numbers/letter, but couldn't for the life of me, wasn't sure the first three were correct. So the person on the phone asked me if we were hurt, I said no, we were fine, but I've never been so scared (well I have but at the time who remembered those other times!) but I kept repeating that I had my daughter in the car and he almost ran us off the road!

The person on the phone said he would get a car in the vicinity to check out the highway for this driver. I didn't have to wait or anything since they have my name and number. I really hope that they did get to stop whomever that was. The only reason why I didn't get out of my car and do some damage when I was behind him, although I wanted to, was because my daughter was with me and I just wanted to make sure she was alright.

I realised that as everything was happening, that my thoughts ran to the fact that she's only six, has to live her life, my son would be waiting at home, my husband wouldn't know anything until later, all sorts of stuff flashed in and out of my mind, and I just felt so helpless when it all was happening and all i could tell myself to do was to get in control of this situation, stay calm and stop the car!

I stopped at the gas station and calmed down and talked to my daughter. I'm glad she was asleep while it happened because she would have been screaming. She understood what almost happened and I cried a little because I was just so grateful that she was safe, and reliving the whole experience again. We got some donuts and rice krispies and headed home.

I feel better from writing this. I can stop thinking about it now. Amanda is OK, she is at school and didn't dwell on the moment and I'm not going to either. I prayed and thank the good Lord that my angel was there for me today.

If I ever see that jerk wad out on the road, he's going to get what's coming to him! 29W GWI, or J9W GWI or 295 GWI or J95 2WI, Orlando license plate, Black car (sorry, don't remember make) tinted windows. It could have been either a late model Toyota or Honda. But it's imprinted in my head so when I see it, I'll know it.



Comments
on Oct 11, 2007
Your Life Does Flash Before Your Eyes


Yes, it does.

I'm safe, make sure no car is coming at you and that fucking idiot is half behind me, honking his horn!


Of course, these idiots always think they are right.

If I ever see that jerk wad out on the road, he's going to get what's coming to him!


It's better to just let it go. You never know what these fools are capable of. (Unless you want to follow him to his house and send a hit squad by later. We can probably arrange that. )


Glad you're all right and everyone is safe.
on Oct 11, 2007
Unless you want to follow him to his house and send a hit squad by later. We can probably arrange that.


Oh that would give me perverse pleasures! !

But yes, let it go is right and I will. But I'm still going to keep an eye out for him though, because I want to see for myself, his face, and I want him to know how much he scared the shit out of me. But yes, I'll let it go.
on Oct 11, 2007
I would say this muppet had a death wish, so his life was constantly flashing before his eyes, hence creating an inability to see the road or other vehicles, because all he can see is his life flashing before his eyes... endless cycle really.

Jokes aside, I am glad you are ok - there are far too many wreckless drives on any road, and it is a terrible waste of life because most accidents are completely avoidable if we show a lottle common sense...
on Oct 11, 2007
One particularly bad accident had me slamming and spinning back and forth between a bridge railing and a retaining wall, getting hit by multiple other cars in the process (four total.) While everything seemed to happen in slow motion, and my recall of detail is immense, all I can really remember thinking was "You aren't gonna make it out of this one, Sabrina. This is it."


Oh God! I understand! I felt the same way when I saw what he was doing but couldn't do anything to stop, all I could do was at a certain point of him and me going almost head on, was swerve the car so I wouldn't get crushed or get my baby hurt.


My ex ended up going through the windshield head-first, which served him right because he'd caused the accident by trying to jerk the steering wheel out of my hands at 70mph (he was drunk and demanding to be let out of the car, which i'd have HAPPILY done if he'd given me a minute to find a safe place to pull over) and I ended up under the dashboard on the driver's side, crunched into a little ball, bruised and cut up a bit but otherwise unhurt.


Ouch!


Jokes aside, I am glad you are ok - there are far too many wreckless drives on any road, and it is a terrible waste of life because most accidents are completely avoidable if we show a lottle common sense...


Exactly! Thx!





I would say this muppet had a death wish


My hubby said the same thing, but not kindly 'muppet' reference!! He did a deliberate act! Nice to see ya btw!
on Oct 11, 2007
What a cocksucker.

Glad you two are alright.

~Zoo
on Oct 11, 2007
you and daughter safe.. priceless!!

Idiot in car is probably going to kill someone and himself.. sadly.. there should be some kind of screening for road rage before they issue you a drivers license.
on Oct 11, 2007

Reply By: Zoologist03

Short and to the point.  I echo my thanksfor your safety and that of your daughter.

on Oct 11, 2007
I am shaking after reading this.

I am so thankful you and your daughter are safe. Praise God.

I hate having car accidents. They steal bits and pieces of security from life.

Whew. Just, whew.
on Oct 11, 2007
I don't know whether my life flashes before my eyes, but I've certainly wanted to get out of my car at points and see if I can make someone else's life flash before their eyes. I'm just pleased you and the little one are safe and well.
on Oct 11, 2007
I fell out of a moving pick up truck going down a gravel road when I was in the eighth grade and I remember very vividly that phenomenon of life passing before my eyes. It was freaky! But the worst thing was later when I woke up in the ER getting gravel dug outta me. Ouch! I STILL have the scars, lol...
on Oct 11, 2007
What a cocksucker.Glad you two are alright.


I know! Thx Shaun!



you and daughter safe.. priceless!!


I know Elie, nothing more priceless...thx!


Idiot in car is probably going to kill someone and himself


My thoughts exactly! I don't know why most people are so impatient and so careless now a days. It's horrible to see some of the stupid things that people do! It reminds me of how precious my life is and how much more careful I have to be out there. Like my hubby always say, it's not you you have to watch out for, it's those crazy people behind their wheel!


echo my thanksfor your safety and that of your daughter.


Thx Doc!


I am so thankful you and your daughter are safe. Praise God.


Amen! Thx Tonya!

Whew. Just, whew.


Whew!


but I've certainly wanted to get out of my car at points and see if I can make someone else's life flash before their eyes.



I hear ya! There are so many times that you want to do something like this to some people!



I'm just pleased you and the little one are safe and well.


Thx Mark!


I fell out of a moving pick up truck going down a gravel road when I was in the eighth grade and I remember very vividly that phenomenon of life passing before my eyes. It was freaky


OMG! That must have been quite terrifying!

But the worst thing was later when I woke up in the ER getting gravel dug outta me. Ouch! I STILL have the scars, lol...


! Thx for the giggle!