Especially NOT on Valentine's Day!
1) "What did you do to your hair?"
Oh no he didn't! Especially if she spent a lot of money on her new do, don't say anything negative! And don't dare say "You look different"!
2) "They both look the same to me."
When your wife, girlfriend, significant other asks your opinion, don't' say that! Actually give an opinion, no guess work, no fancy speech and especially show that you do care!
3) "Relax."
Oh no, you know you asked for it! Her response might be, "Are you saying that I'm being irrational?" ! Run for cover or kiss and make it better!
4) "I've got it all under control."
LOL! Yes, sure you do! I've heard those words too many times and have had to save many a disaster! Is it so wrong for you to ask directions? Why don't you get a GPS system then? Give it up buddy, if you need help, ask for it!
5) "You're not one of those feminists, are you?"
Another reason to run for cover, making a comment like that! Women are very opinionated and will tell you exactly what they are thinking! What? Are you saying that they should just sit and look pretty and (gag) nothing else? She can't open the door herself, go dutch? Especially if she insists on any of those two, allow her to do it! (whisper aside to my ladies, sometimes it's good to let them do this for you!)
6) "When are you due?"
Never, ever, say this! She might not be pregnant and you might as well just hope the ground open up and swallow you! There is no way you're going to get over this one! Sorry fellows!
7) "You're being emotional."
It's like asking her if she's having her period! Another no-no guys! You definitely won't be getting any tonight!
8) "You're acting just like your mother/my mother/my ex-girlfriend."
Never, never mention your ex! And never, ever compare her to your mom! Unless it's a flattering moment where she looks good and it can be a compliment! But you should never do that no matter what!
9) "You complete me."
That line was so cute, however many eons of years ago Jerry Maguire was out. It's dried up now! So just put this line to rest, it's been tried, buried and found too used for use!
10) "Do you really think you should be eating that?"
What are you trying to say?
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10 Things to Never Say to a Guy!
1) "That looks cute."
I’ve said this to mine or my guy friends and they are never pleased about it! So girls, never say that!
2) "We need to talk."
According to the author “These four words shut off a man's brain faster than long division.” If you want them to stick around girls, re-phrase that statement!
3) "It's just a game."
Never, ever say this to your guy! It’s not just a game to them, it’s their life!
4) "Nothing's wrong."
I say we can say this and it’s up to them to try to figure it out, wouldn’t you agree ladies? (birds chirping) OK, OK, so it’s not a good line to use guys, but can you blame us when you guys just can’t seem to get it together to know what’s going on in front of you?!
5) "I sound like my mom."
Now ladies, why would you even say this to him? You don’t want him to say it to you, so do likewise!
6) "I just want to be friends."
Guys, when you hear this, it means the relationship, what little relationship there was, is over!
7) "Size doesn't matter."
Um, er…..I never say this, so…..the only thing I have to say is it just depends on how you use it! hehehe
8) "What are you wearing?"
Yes guys, we know that as long as you didn’t have to dig for it out of the dirty laundry basket, it’s OK with you! But for heavens sake guys, think how gorgeous your woman will look and how bad you’re going to make her feel!
9) "Do you think she's pretty?"
Of course you do! Enough said! I just don’t think there’s anything wrong with asking this question, right ladies?!
10) "Which outfit do you like better?"
Look, this is another valid question! I say go ahead and ask! Guys, just don’t say “They look the same to me”!
Original article written by Jessica Murphy who is a freelance writer based in Seattle You can read her article here: Link