More thoughts - Especially for Men
Women are such fantastic beings. We’re intuitive, loving, and classy; many of us are very independent; we are wives, girlfriends, lovers, mothers, daughters, sisters, all of the in-laws, aunts, and every other list on the relative chain. The list of who we are and what we are about is so long and so vast that it is too many to list here.
There are always some sayings about women, one that get repeated a lot is, “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” which really reads, if a woman doesn’t get what she wants, watch out! One popular word that is used a lot is “bitch”. When someone wants to get back at a woman, that is the first thing they will say to her – “you bitch” – so as to insult her. What is a bitch anyway? Yeah, I know it’s a female dog. But why are women often referred to as a bitch? I know the person saying it would think it’s the only way to really insult whomever he/she is talking to, but why call a woman a “bitch”? Maybe it’s in the same sense of calling men “dogs” and/or “pigs”? But really, saying to a man, “you dog” or “you pig”, is looked on as kind of complimentary isn’t it? Because saying that to a man would never be deem as a personal attack.
But this is my two-cents on the word “bitch”; Ladies, if anyone calls you a bitch just look at the person with a big smile and say “Thank you”. After all, it takes one to know one right? (you could even say that too – it takes one to know one!) You wouldn’t be considered a bitch if you weren’t seen as a threat, right? Which means you’re a force to be reckon with.
The comedienne George Carlin said, “women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid.” Yep, men do drive women crazy! But we women already knew this, especially those of us who are in a relationship!
Sigmund Freud said, “Despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, I have not been able to answer... the great question that has never been answered: what does a woman want?”
This is really a question that most people, sometimes even the woman herself are unable to answer. Different women want different things, depending on their situation and/or station in life.
I recently found an explanation to some of the things we women say to our men. And you know what? I could see myself in some of the responses, Lol!
So read on men, this may clue you in on what not to say to your wives or girlfriends, or infact, how to figure out your lady’s responses!
FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - this will cause you to have one of those arguments.
FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.
NOTHING
This means "something," and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with "Fine"
GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows! )
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine"
GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows)
This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.
LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing"
SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a non-verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.
THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow."
GO AHEAD!
At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.
PLEASE DO
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay"
THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say you're welcome.
THANKS A LOT
This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing"