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Published on July 25, 2007 By foreverserenity In Blogging
I'm laughing because I had every intention of writing about this for a while now but didn't, less i seem to be nitpicking or something! But seeing Gene's article made me decide to! Link

I know we all love to write and that's why we are here, the fact that others are able to read and respond to what we write is very intoxicating and quite refreshing! To think that hey, someone is interested in what I wrote, you know what I mean? It gives you a certain feeling of pleasure, doesn't it for you? It does for me!lol!

I've always wondered if people care whether other bloggers care to comment on their articles. Scratch that! I know some of us do and try to respond to each comment, which is the polite thing to do. I have noticed the opposite as well. Some writers fail to acknowledge or even respond to comments left on their blogs.

That always leave me perplexed and wondering that maybe I shouldn't have bothered or maybe that person doesn't even want me there! Sometimes it wouldn't phase me but there are times when I wonder about it. Thus I've began to not bother with some of my regular readings because I can take a hint!

Then seeing Gene's blog made me think, first, that was so nice of him to say something because I wondered about that (as I've seen others do before too), because whether we like to think it or not, it makes us wonder "was it something I said?" or something like that!

It's the polite thing to do after all, even if you don't respond individually to each comment, don't you think?! I know everyone gets busy and perhaps they don't bother looking back at past articles, but wouldn't it be the expected thing to do?

So JUsers, do you like responding to comments left on your blogs, if not, why don't you?


[Note: This is in no way a complaint against any articles I've responded to in the past and have gotten no response, this is just a matter of curiosity about human behaviour!}




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on Jul 25, 2007
I agree that responding to each poster is polite and shows you acknowledge and appreciate their comments (unless it is a flame war ).
on Jul 25, 2007
I try to but sometimes get sidetracked. Now should people respond to the responses that they responded to on the original article and can you say that three times fast - lol.
on Jul 25, 2007
I try to respond to every comment. Why? Because in a face to face conversation I would respond to everyone who spoke to me.

(On a side note. I dreamed about you last night FS. I dreamed you and I went out for drinks, and couldn't find any place with OTHER people. So it was just the two of us in dimly lit bar rooms, with empty wooden dance floors, and bad beer...then you ditched me to go shopping with some other girl. What's up with that woman? hahaha. Freaky.)
on Jul 25, 2007

then you ditched me to go shopping with some other girl.

She ditched you?  How cheeky!

on Jul 25, 2007
I am still fairly new here and don't want to step on any toes. I really like to hear what people think about what I write...sometimes I feel uncomfortable responding to comments...I don't want to come off snooty or conceited. I have a time or two got a little too involved in comment response...I don't know if that qualifies as a flame or not...but I would rather just keep things light. Folks here have said some very kind things to me and I do appreciate it. I don't always have time to respond to comments but I do read every one and enjoy them.
on Jul 25, 2007
Should I respond to every one? If you think I should...I will make an effort.
on Jul 25, 2007
I agree that responding to each poster is polite and shows you acknowledge and appreciate their comments


Oh yea! It's the least the blogger should do. It is also OK for an overall comment as well, especiallly if the gist of the conversation doesn't require an individual comment.






I try to but sometimes get sidetracked.


That happens to the best of us Loca!


Now should people respond to the responses that they responded to on the original article and can you say that three times fast - lol.


Cheeky!! That's not necessary unless the commentor has made a new comment! ! Now say that fast three times!




try to respond to every comment. Why? Because in a face to face conversation I would respond to everyone who spoke to me.


That's a good way of looking at it Tonya!


On a side note. I dreamed about you last night FS. I dreamed you and I went out for drinks, and couldn't find any place with OTHER people. So it was just the two of us in dimly lit bar rooms, with empty wooden dance floors, and bad beer...then you ditched me to go shopping with some other girl. What's up with that woman? hahaha. Freaky



Freaky indeed!! Bad beer?! Ouch, terrible!! We definitely would be at a jammin place girlfriend! And I never ditch my friends!


Reply By: Dr GuyPosted: Wednesday, July 25, 2007then you ditched me to go shopping with some other girl. She ditched you? How cheeky!


! See, that's why it's a dream Doc!


I really like to hear what people think about what I write...sometimes I feel uncomfortable responding to comments...I don't want to come off snooty or conceited


This is true for most of us BFD. I try not to make my comments too long but they tend to be when I have a lot to say on the topic in question!

...I don't know if that qualifies as a flame or not...


I'll leave someone else to give you the fine details but in general a flame is a disagreement between two or more bloggers, i.e., a big nasty bruha!


I don't always have time to respond to comments but I do read every one and enjoy them.


That's the same for some people, but I can't speak for anyone so I won't! It's always good to let the reader know if you can or cannot comment.


Should I respond to every one? If you think I should...I will make an effort.


Like I said, it's always good to make the readers know that you can't respond right away or at all. At least they know not to look for a response or even not to bother to comment.

on Jul 25, 2007
I really don't think it's a big deal either way. I like having my comments responded to, but a lot of the time an article can be quite controversial, and a comment gets buried and never responded to, or you get distracted and the thread disappears before you get back to it, and then you feel silly ressurecting a thread that's been dead for a week. It's nice to respond to everyone, but it's not necessary to make you a good poster.

In a face to face conversation with a lot of people, I'm not going to respond to what everyone says every time - I will let others respond, and pick and choose what I respond to myself. I would rather listen than talk, because then I might learn something. If I was in a conversation about God with KFC and someone else in person, I would not respond to everything - KFC would definitely respond more than me, because she's much more experienced with that, and I will make comments when it seems necessary. I understand it's a little different on a blog, but if someone else already said it, I don't necessarily need to.
on Jul 25, 2007
I'm new around here, so maybe I don't really know. However, it seems to me that some comments don't require response. And as Jythier said, sometimes others respond for you. On the other hand, as a new comer, it is nice to have people acknowledge me...
on Jul 26, 2007

For Big Fat Daddy and Straniera - each blogger has their own style.  Some respond (or try to - as Jythier points out in a hot debate it is difficult) to every poster (not necessarily every post) and others just to the posts that make a good point, or offer a rebuttal.  Some of the most prolific bloggers only do the latter - but over time, they will respond to just about everyone on one article or another.

Pick your own style.  If you are of the former, it becomes obvious over time, and I dont think anyone (at least I do not) gets upset when their posts are not always responded to.

on Jul 26, 2007
really don't think it's a big deal either way. I like having my comments responded to, but a lot of the time an article can be quite controversial, and a comment gets buried and never responded to


It's not, most of the time unless you asked a question. As for controversy, don't expect a response when there are a 'gazillion' rebuttals or response.


However, it seems to me that some comments don't require response


I'm referring to an article in general, not necessarily a comment to a comment. If you posted an article and I had a comment to make, would you respond to the comment? That's what I'm asking. Not someone else making a comment and me responding to the comment, although that has happened. Sometimes there are articles written, comments made and it's left hanging, that's what I'm talking about. That's why I was curious to find out, what are most bloggers motiviation to blog, apart from venting and discussing and all that, but don't most of you appreciate someone reading and commenting on something you wrote, or is the reader taking time to comment wasting your time? That's what I wondered about.


Pick your own style.


That's the key!
on Jul 26, 2007

When someone has taken time out of their busy life to comment on my blog,  I think it's only considerate to reply to that comment.

Some comments truly don't need a response,  yet a brief "thanks for dropping in"  is best I think.

I have a sister that never replies to all the comments she gets on her blog,  yet she has a huge following.  I don't know about that,  I don't understand that behavior.

I think most of would agree it's pleasant to get comments,  it's a feeling of belonging to a community.

As long as one has made it clear that they don't reply to comments,  hopefully there wouldn't be hurt feelings.  One or two times now I've not known that someone had left comments,  long after the post died a natural death,  and so finally responded rather late. 

If I've been at odds with a blogger then I won't respond,   I prefer to just "walk on by".  I've seen it happen where I've responded and it started flames so I think it's better to leave alone.  After all,  like my grandmother used to say,  it takes two to tango.

Good article forever

 

on Jul 26, 2007
I like to respond to comments, but sometimes there really isn't much to say other than LOL or "Exactly".. and those get old after awhile. I also don't always respond to comments if they are the same as others I've already commented on.
on Jul 26, 2007
I respond to around 99% of comments left on my blogs.
on Jul 27, 2007
Like Tova, I see responses as part of an online 'conversation' and I like to respond to all comments. Of course, this is just my take on it. As for me commenting on other's articles and having my comments acknowledged, because of where I live, I know often times the article has already gone through the initial rush of comments and respones and the blogger in question has moved on to their next article.

In short, I guess what I'm saying is it doesn't bother me one little bit, but it is always nice to see a response to a comment I've left.
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