Earlier today I'm out and about with my kids and I see the hubbub of activities around.  There are a lot of people out shopping, lots of Valentine's Day activities and stuff in the stores.  people passing me with big balloons in their vehicles, some cars dressed up in ribbons and have hearts are sprayed on words..even I'm dressed in red (a red shirt), how do we get suckered into these types of things? There was a time when our holidays used to be sacred, when I say sacred I mea...